What is a relational approach?

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A ‘relational approach’ is a way of interacting or communicating with others that embodies core values such as respect, inclusiveness, honesty, compassion, cooperation and humility.

There are a wide range of relational approaches, each of which caters to a different situation.

The most commonly used relational approaches — like active listening and courtesy — are needed to maintain and build good relationships. Other approaches need to be more structured and planned. Mentoring or Community-Building Circles, for example, can strengthen existing relationships.

Some approaches are only used when there has been some kind of relationship crisis or breakdown, and generally need a trained facilitator to make sure the conversation between those involved is safe and productive.

For instance, Problem-Solving Circles and Family-Led Decision-Making can help people to work through difficult decisions. Mediation can resolve the tension and stalemates that often arise when people disagree. And Restorative justice can help to repair relationships when someone has been hurt or wronged.*

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Citation: Brookes, D. R. (2008). Relational Approaches Framework [Infographic]. https://relationalapproaches.com/approaches/

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*For more detail, see The Differences between Mediation and Restorative Justice/Practice.