Relational Approaches is an independent research, consultancy and training service based in Sydney, Australia. It is provided by Dr. Derek R. Brookes, who has over 20 years of international experience.
A ‘relational approach’ is a way of interacting or communicating with others that embodies core values such as respect, inclusiveness, honesty, compassion, cooperation and humility.
There are a wide range of relational approaches, each of which caters to a different situation. The most commonly used relational approaches — like active listening and courtesy — are needed to maintain and build good relationships. Other approaches need to be a little more structured and planned in advance. Mentoring or circles, for example, can strengthen existing relationships and help to solve difficult problems.
Some approaches are only used when there has been some kind of relationship crisis or breakdown, and generally need a trained facilitator to make sure the conversation between those involved is safe and productive. Mediation, for instance, can resolve the tension and stalemates that often arise when people disagree. Restorative justice can help to repair relationships when someone has been hurt or wronged.
The purpose of this service is to use the activities of research, consultancy and training to support practices and policies that take a relational approach — whether in the context of workplaces, schools, criminal justice, hospitals, government departments, residential care, or local communities.